how to improve yourself

HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF

There is no recipe for being a good person. Stereotypes if there is any, however, don’t say anything. Feeling useful and good about yourself, giving your 100% and believing that you are doing things the best way, is the only thing that matters when measuring what kind of person you are. In order to feel that way, you must constantly be overcoming yourself. And here are 20 ways that can help you do it:

• READ LITTLE BIT EVERYDAY : Books are a concentrated source of wisdom. The more you read, the more you expose yourself to knowledge. In addition, experts have shown that 20 minutes of reading daily, collaborate with brain stimulation and stress Reduction.

• LEARN TO PLAY CHESS(OR ANY STRATEGY GAME) :Chess is an incredible game to learn from strategies and to improve the power of your brain. Playing chess, besides entertainment, you are exercising your analytical skills. You can also learn about strategies in other table or computer games.

• LEARN NEW LANGUAGE : Learning new languages without a particular need, develops and opens our minds. It is beneficial to our academic and work environment and allows you to get to know other cultures.
• HAVE A NEW HOBBY :Consider if there is something new that you would like to try. You can learn a new sport or enroll in cooking, dancing or craft workshops. Learning something new requires you to grow in various areas, whether physical, mental or emotional.
• TAKE A NEW COURSE : Courses are a good way to gain knowledge and learn skills. It doesn’t have to be a long course. The seminars and workshops fulfill the same function. They give you a knowledge and also, improve your resume.
• CREATE A ROOM THAT INSPIRE YOU : The environment in which you are affects your mood and tone. If you live in a place that inspires you, you will be inspired every day. Order it and clean it frequently, and don’t let anyone do it for you. Caring about these details helps you to be organized in other areas as well.
• IMPROVE YOUR SKILL : Earn experience to improve your skills. If you play a sport, you can strive to be stronger or faster for example. If you write, you can aim to improve your writing skills, and so on. Growing up in this aspect will make you feel better in everything you set out to do, motivate you and make you more tolerant of frustration.
• WAKE  UP EARLY : It is known that early awakening improves our productivity and quality of life. When you wake up early, your mind is more proactive and that moves you during the day. It is also advisable to do everything possible to sleep 8 hours a day.

• GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE : A real growth comes with hard work and effort. Being very comfortable doesn’t help us grow, it makes us stanch. Recognize your comfort zone and evaluate if you stay there most of the time. Shuffle your routine a bit and do something different. Exposing yourself to a new environment or context makes you grow. Because you have to learn to act in new circumstances.
• REDUCE THE TIME YOU SPENDING CHATTING :I realized that having an open chat program always entails a lot of time lost. This time you could spend better on other activities. When you really need to chat and have time for it, do it.
• LEAVE A BAD HABIT : Are you not doing the exercises? Are you always late? Do you spend a lot of time in your armchair?  Eat your nails? Do you smoke? To leave a bad habit, the first thing to do is to recognize that we have it. Then identify how it affects you, look for a substitute and mostly avoid situations that motivate you to do those bad things. It is also important that you reward yourself as you progress.

social skills and manners

SOCIAL SKILLS AND MANNERS

“Manners” are a set of behaviors which have been regionally agreed upon as a means of providing group cohesion and cooperation. They can differ greatly between countries, states, towns, or even households, and so it becomes imperative to limit your expectations for the behavior of another. We can't possibly know the social norms embedded in each and every individual we encounter, so modern day good manners just include being thoughtful and open-minded and receptive to differences.

First, let me explain that "manners" and "mannerism" are very different things. "Manners" refers to polite social behaviour. A "mannerism" is an idiosyncratic habitual behaviour -- an odd quirk that a person does repeatedly. Your mannerisms drive your spouse and children crazy. 

Basically, manners is a way in which something is done. I am going to assume you mean good manners. Good manners usually express the norm, or what is expected. Manners, or etiquette, are the things you do to make others feel welcomed and comfortable. They also are designed to let people know that when someone does something nice for you, you should always thank them, either in person, or by a thank you note. When talking about dinner table manners it means to eat in such a way that you do not gross people out.